Latest Reflections
Who is a Soloist?
It was a cute little bungalow in a neighborhood of bungalows near Minnehaha Creek Park in Minneapolis. Thanks to a hefty down payment from my grandmother, who had passed when I was ten, I could buy...
“Stay The Way You Were”
We are so good at wanting things to stay the same. We don’t want our world or the people in it—near or far—to change. For example… When Taylor Swift released 1989, I muttered, “Stay in your lane.”...
Roxie Update (because several of you asked)
Headline Roxie, the 8-year-old Chow/Pug mix I adopted this summer, is doing well with people. Dogs, not so much. Details Trazodone is out and Prozac is in. It's made a visible difference. The...
Did They Get the Lessons Right?
In an earlier post, I mentioned four lessons for happiness from the “oldest old.” John Leland identified these in an article in the New York Times (and as I learned later, in his book). While...
Art and Soul
Meadow Lakes (where my mom lives) often has art shows of resident artwork. When I was there this time, there was a massive art show that covered the walls of the major hallways. The art was not from...
Three Good Things
When I’m at my mom’s for a week, that’s enough time for me to settle in and for good things to happen. These were three: 1. On Roxie’s morning and evening walks, we often saw deer. Most of the time,...
Got enough love?
When my husband died and other changes followed, The Love Bucket helped me figure out how to bring more love into my life. If you’d like an objective method to increase the level of love in your life, this guide is for you!