Latest Reflections
Roxie & Me: Two Steps Forward, One Step Back
First, the upside, which I so easily overlook. Roxie and I have made great strides. At night, when I brush my teeth, Roxie gets up from her bed in the living room and walks into her crate in my...
FAQs: Cookies, Mindful Regard, Rx, and What About Cindy?
You've sent me a lot of questions lately—thank you! Many were about my medications, which surprised me. That's the answer that required vulnerability, because I incorrectly think of myself as 30...
A Do-Over With Roxie
Roxie almost bit Ken. It happened because: Roxie got afraid when... Ken made a sudden movement with his hand, because... I failed to give Ken instructions on how to interact with Roxie. Ken and Carl...
Love Me a Good Do-Over, part 2
Ten years after the leadership debacle with Cindy, I got the opportunity for a do-over. I was no longer working for McDonald’s headquarters outside Chicago. I was a freelance learning consultant...
Love Me a Good Do-Over, part 1
Real-life experiments thrill me. One of my most favorite things is to have the opportunity for a do-over of something I messed up the first time. Do-overs are just as much fun in real life as they...
Intense Meditation
“Intense meditation” is an oxymoron, but I can’t think of a better way to describe what I did. The Trust Technique uses a process of being in the present moment plus having mindful regard for the...
Got enough love?
When my husband died and other changes followed, The Love Bucket helped me figure out how to bring more love into my life. If you’d like an objective method to increase the level of love in your life, this guide is for you!