Did They Get the Lessons Right?

Did They Get the Lessons Right?

In an earlier post, I mentioned four lessons for happiness from the “oldest old.” John Leland identified these in an article in the New York Times (and as I learned later, in his book). While visiting my mom, it occurred to me I was in the perfect place to vet the...
Art and Soul

Art and Soul

Meadow Lakes (where my mom lives) often has art shows of resident artwork. When I was there this time, there was a massive art show that covered the walls of the major hallways. The art was not from residents but from artists throughout New Jersey. This was the state...
Three Good Things

Three Good Things

When I’m at my mom’s for a week, that’s enough time for me to settle in and for good things to happen. These were three: 1. On Roxie’s morning and evening walks, we often saw deer. Most of the time, they saw us first and bolted into the woods, leaving a bobbing white...
Thanksgiving or Takesgiving?

Thanksgiving or Takesgiving?

[Note: This post from 2021 is repeated because it’s still relevant.] Thanksgiving? Or Takesgiving? It depends on your perspective. It depends on the story you tell yourself. If you tell yourself that Manifest Destiny is your divine right, that we are bringing...
Googling Cherry Tomatoes

Googling Cherry Tomatoes

My mom has become convinced that cherry tomatoes are not real tomatoes, but some genetically manufactured fake. I told her they’re just a different variety. She blew me off. I didn’t understand it. I’ve seen Mom eat cherry tomatoes. In our packaged dinners with their...
Jule Kucera