13. The Second-Middle Finger

13. The Second-Middle Finger

Skipping blithely past the standard meaning of the middle finger, we’ll give it our own: Contribute. If the first finger is Create, the work I do for pure joy, the second is the work I do for other reasons. Over the years, the actions I’ve associated with this finger...
12. The First-Index Finger

12. The First-Index Finger

When I was creating the Hand, I had already retired from my corporate job. As I asked, How then shall I live?, I turned to Designing Your Life by Bill Burnett and Dave Evans. It’s based on the course they taught at Stanford, the most popular course at the university....
11. The Thumb, More Details

11. The Thumb, More Details

There is an area of life that’s important, but I didn’t want a hand with six digits, so I put it with the thumb: Money.* To phrase it in alignment with Be Well, let’s call it Financial Wellness. Sometimes models for designing your life omit financial wellness....
10. The Thumb: Details

10. The Thumb: Details

To think about my Be Well thumb, I like to use the Human Compass: It’s overwhelming to try to do everything I think I need to do for my wellness, and honestly, impossible. Can I really: make all my meals at home, from scratch with organic ingredients, get 30...
9. The Thumb

9. The Thumb

In junior high, I was on a gymnastics team. We were the New Jersey Junior Olympic state champions. That’s not relevant to the Hand, but it’s a moment of glory I treasure. I placed 5th in vault and 6th in floor exercise. After my floor ex routine, my mom harshly...
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