Loose

Loose

I feel loose… and spacious. A little tired, but good. Audrey (my wonderful virtual assistant in the Philippines) and I have been wrapping up the StoryJoules group coaching work, and it feels right. While I was in Argentina, Audrey gained two new clients. I can...
“Things tend to work out for me.”

“Things tend to work out for me.”

I’m good at worrying. Lots of practice. But most of what I worry about  never happens and I’ve wasted all that precious time. Before the trip to Argentina, I began the morning with my typical pattern—to worry about the first thing that could possibly go wrong. “What...
David Cassidy’s Last Words

David Cassidy’s Last Words

“So much wasted time.” David Cassidy, last words from his death bed, age 67, as reported by his daughter. My trip to Argentina included a 10-hour layover in Miami. I invested part of that time with the 2025-2026 Year Compass. The first half is a look back at 2025, the...
Future You Will Thank You

Future You Will Thank You

The concept of ‘Future Me’ has helped me be a better person this year, to roll my shopping cart right past the chocolate aisle. Present Me, who used to be Future Me, has thanked Past Me for making some wise choices. A key process that helps me create a better life for...
Winter Solstice

Winter Solstice

Thank you. My mom’s dementia. The bag lady (again). Roxie. 400 cookies. Inherited family trauma. Internal Family Systems. A name in stone. Thank you for being here, for all of it. My fingers stretched, seeking to feel it, understand it, make sense of it, share...
All My Relations

All My Relations

When I walk Roxie, if I am feeling lonely (it happens), I—silently—remind myself of all my relations, and I greet them. “Hello, tree! We are relations!” To the gray river behind the trees, “Hello, river! We are relations!” To the woman with the curved back, huddled...
Jule Kucera