A More Expansive Question

A More Expansive Question

Last month, a friend and I went to the Indiana Peony Festival in Noblesville, Indiana, about a 2-hour drive from Cincinnati. I selfishly looked forward to the trip. Yes, because we’re good friends and I enjoy any time we’re together. But also because she is a...
Yoga, Tears & Tarot

Yoga, Tears & Tarot

The other night, during my pre-bed yin yoga routine, I lay on my back, shoulders flat on the thin rubber mat, hips and legs turned in one direction but my head turned in the other, twisting my innards like a corkscrew. I started to cry. Not little wimpy tears, but all...
“2. Live as if your time is limited”

“2. Live as if your time is limited”

My 50th high school reunion is this August. I’ve got my dress and a room at a B&B to share with my friend Claire, who lives in San Francisco. I’m looking forward to seeing my friends, but Todd won’t be there because he died a month ago. Todd had cancer and his...
Family

Family

I’ve enjoyed posting these “oldies but goodies,” posts written long ago but still remembered. This one’s so old it’s not even on my website. It’s from The Before Times, the posts from February 2009 through June 2018, when I took...
“Jule, do you still brush your teeth?”

“Jule, do you still brush your teeth?”

Before, my mother’s questions were merely repetitive. Now, they prove the synapses in her brain are not slick and speedy, but more like dusty cobwebs or roads that suddenly T-bone into a grassy field. Because my mother doesn’t see my toothbrush on her bathroom...
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